Father's Day

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Not long ago I had to grit my teeth through another Mother's Day, reminded that I am not a mother.  I'm still hopeful that next year will be different, but there's just no way to know.  Today is Father's Day, and while I haven't mentioned it to Husband I'm sure it's in the back of his mind.  We wished our own fathers a good day without acknowledging how it feels for him.  Perhaps I glossed over it in the hopes that he found other things to occupy his mind; perhaps I just didn't want to be the one to make a difficult day even worse.  Either way, I know social media stings a bit today and can only imagine how it feels for him.

I can't wait to take to social media to praise his awesomeness as a father, because I already know he's going to be amazing.  If how he treats me is any indication, he will be the most attentive father.  He will go out of his way to make a child feel seen, heard, and loved.  He will teach them how to ride a bike, change the spark plugs in a car (if he can teach me, he can teach anyone), and how to make perfect scrambled eggs.  He will patiently answer questions and introduce classics like Star Wars and Star Trek.  He will ask if they had a good day and listen intently to the entire rundown.  He will always be ready with tickles, hugs, and horrible dad jokes.

Happy Father's Day, love.  I can only imagine the day I can write all of these wonderful things about you in present tense instead of future tense -- here's to hoping that time comes as quickly as possible.

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